What parents go through when their child is in the hospital, and why proximity is essential

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When a child is admitted to the hospital, a family’s life is suddenly turned completely upside down.

Parents are confronted with uncertainty, fear, and practical challenges. But exactly how significant is that impact? And what truly makes the difference for parents and children?

An international study led by Linda S. Franck sheds new light on these questions and simultaneously demonstrates how crucial proximity and family-centered care are for the well-being of families.

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On May 21, 2026, Ronald McDonald House Belgium welcomed partners, experts and families to
its House in Jette for a warm and meaningful evening.

At the heart of the event was one key
question: what truly makes a difference when a child is hospitalized?
The answer was unanimous, supported by both science and lived experience:
the presence of family is essential.

One of the most extensive studies worldwide

The study, titled “Prevalence of Depression and Anxiety Symptoms Among Parents of Hospitalized Children in 14 Countries”, collected data from more than 3,300 parents in 14 countries.

The goal was clear: to gain insight into how often anxiety and depression occur among parents of hospitalized children, and which factors exacerbate or reduce these symptoms.
The results are striking and confronting.

The emotional impact is significant and worldwide.

Almost half of parents (49.7%) exhibit symptoms of depression, while as many as 69% struggle with anxiety symptoms.
This means that for thousands of families worldwide, their child’s hospitalization is not only a medical challenge but also a heavy mental burden.
Moreover, that impact does not stop at the hospital itself. Additional research within the Learning From Families study shows that even months after discharge:

  • 1 in 3 parents exhibits depressive symptoms
  • 1 in 4 parents experiences signs of post-traumatic stress

The conclusion is clear: the consequences of a hospital admission extend far beyond the medical treatment alone.

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Where science meets experience

During the panel discussion “A child in hospital?

How the presence of family makes all the
difference”, Dr. Julie Lefevere (Head of Neonatology at UZ Brussel) and Lien De Proost
(postdoctoral researcher at KU Leuven) shared their insights.
Their message was clear: family-centered care is not an add-on, but a fundamental part of high-
quality care for vulnerable children.
Research shows that when parents are actively involved:

  • babies have more stable vital signs
  • stress levels decrease
  • sleep and growth improve
  • development outcomes are stronger

As Julie Lefevere puts it:

“Family-centered care is not a soft approach — it is quality care.”
Lien De Proost added the parents’ perspective, drawing from her research on prematurity and
intensive care. She emphasized that good care goes beyond medical outcomes — it also
includes proximity, recognition and long-term support for families.

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What makes the difference for parents?

Linda S. Franck’s study identifies clear risk factors. For instance, it appears that parents feel emotionally worse when they assess their child’s health as more serious.

In addition, social and practical factors also play a role, such as:

  • unstable living situation
  • financial worries
  • experiences of social
  • exclusion or discrimination

But the study also offers hope.

She demonstrates that certain elements can significantly relieve mental pressure.

The power of closeness and support

Parents who have strong social support, adequate self-care, and positive experiences with family-centered care report significantly fewer anxiety and depression symptoms.

Family-centered care – care in which parents are actively involved and can stay close to their child – plays a key role in this.

Research shows that this approach:

  • gives parents more control and involvement
  • reduces feelings of powerlessness
  • The bond between parent and child is strengthened
  • And ultimately also improves the care experience and outcomes

In other words: when parents can stay close and are supported, their role changes from spectator to active partner in care.

Why this is so important for childcare


The study emphasizes that parents’ mental health is not an afterthought, but an
essential part of caring for the child.
Researchers therefore advocate for:

  • Systematic screening of parents for anxiety and depression
  • Better access to psychosocial support
  • Further development of family-centered care models

Because when parents feel supported, it has a positive effect not only on themselves, but also on the recovery and well-being of their child.

What does this mean for the Children’s Fund?

The insights from this study confirm what we see every day at the Children’s Fund: proximity makes the difference.


By allowing families to stay close to their child, we not only reduce practical barriers such as distance and costs, but also create the conditions for better mental resilience.


We ensure that parents:

  • Being able to be present
  • Staying involved in care
  • Finding support in each other and from care providers
  • And despite everything, keep being a parent.

And that is exactly what it’s all about.

Continuing to build warm, family-centered care together

Linda S. Franck’s study is a powerful call to further invest in care that places not only the child, but the entire family at the center.


Because when we support families, we also strengthen care itself.


Do you want to help make a difference for families with a sick child?


Support the Children’s Fund and help us ensure that parents can always stay close, exactly when it matters most.

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